tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25005619.post115257324673032372..comments2023-05-23T09:34:02.897-06:00Comments on TangledMe: What I Can't DoJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15530972001172936718noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25005619.post-1152749464998386772006-07-12T18:11:00.000-06:002006-07-12T18:11:00.000-06:00Oh my god, Jo, that's so heartbreaking I can't eve...Oh my god, Jo, that's so heartbreaking I can't even begin to understand.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15515406196912595782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25005619.post-1152649899060013412006-07-11T14:31:00.000-06:002006-07-11T14:31:00.000-06:00sometimes it's hard when we look at one we love an...sometimes it's hard when we look at one we love and there are swirling questions all around...<BR/><BR/>but Little Man has a family, all of you, who love him so. and he, and you all, are in God's loving hands...<BR/><BR/>happy birthday to Little Man!ipodmommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06581681803719510867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25005619.post-1152585117624468722006-07-10T20:31:00.000-06:002006-07-10T20:31:00.000-06:00Wow. Damn. How did you find out about his birth ...Wow. Damn. How did you find out about his birth mother? Did this JUST happen? And I'm with Jenny--Little Man has a lot more going for him (hell, he's got YOU) than a lot of "normal" kids do. Which isn't to say that we don't always grieve over the things we can't give our kids (hell, I had a good cry today myself when Grub got his tooth, because I thought "if he wasn't allergic to breast milk and every other fricking thing under the sun and on a G-tube, I might have found out about it even sooner because I'd've been nursing him")(and yes, I know, PATHETIC). But then when you consider how much worse it could have been (if Little Man had been one of those "dumpster babies" you sometimes hear about or Grub had been exactly as he is ten years ago before they invented The Miraculous Formula That Costs As Much As a Mortgage But Is Worth Every Penny)...there are more reasons NOT to cry is all I'm saying. Not that it'll stop ME for one...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25005619.post-1152578392112384512006-07-10T18:39:00.000-06:002006-07-10T18:39:00.000-06:00Thanks Jenny for reminding me he has a BIG family ...Thanks Jenny for reminding me he has a BIG family and is loved oodles and oodles every day.Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15530972001172936718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25005619.post-1152577547304530382006-07-10T18:25:00.000-06:002006-07-10T18:25:00.000-06:00But his family is so big and his brothers and sist...But his family is so big and his brothers and sisters are so close and he knows his mother well, she is the who rejoices on his birthdays and all the things he doesn't have and will never have are only as sad as we let them be. <BR/><BR/>Hope his birthday is everything he wants it to be and then just a little pinch of what he didn't even know he wanted.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137018447917798078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25005619.post-1152575248904278902006-07-10T17:47:00.000-06:002006-07-10T17:47:00.000-06:00I almost know what you mean although the girls do ...I almost know what you mean although the girls do know their parents.<BR/><BR/>There is so much I can't do either.<BR/><BR/>Cry - I may just cry with you.Grannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17283823157675990935noreply@blogger.com